Maybe or Maybe Not.

Maybe I'll run a cozy bakery,decorating a cake with your beloved cherry treat.Maybe I'll rule the boardroom,debating against the rising heat. Maybe I'll write a book or two,lamenting upon your broken heart.Maybe I'll don the astronaut suit,wandering off to the world you spoke of from the start. Maybe I'll wear the doctor's coat ,healing all...

I never wanted a perfect relationship. I just want someone to try as hard as I do.

Time and time again, it’s the same old story. People say that I expect too much, that I can’t reasonably expect to find perfection, that I have to learn to settle for someone who is just ‘good enough’.But what those people don’t seem to understand is that it’s not about perfection. It never has been....

WHAT Iff !!!

“What if, in another universe,I deserve you? Hear me out. There’s this philosopher from the 1890s named William James, and he coined this theory about “the multiverse” which suggests that a hypothetical set of multiple universes comprises everything that can possibly exist simultaneously. Are you following? The entirety of space, time, matter and energy is...

Ghosting

We all share a common storyI too was “ghosted”,In the fire of loveMy heart was bitterly roasted I tried my best toMake it last,And never make her guiltyOf her betrayal in past I was being so cautiousWith words and deeds,I made sure I don’t hurt herEven if my own heart bleeds Everyday was an attemptSo...

“They’ve got my back!”

Today let me reflect upon perceptions & expectations in relationships! I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said myself or heard the following statement, “They’ve got my back!” which always concerns me, as a certain dynamic is at play here. Let me ask you a question on the above photo What color do you...

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Life is short yet beautiful. There are chains of moments as you walk pass this journey of your life. There are days when you are over the moon, feeling lucky about everything. You love your life and feel good meeting every person along the way. It’s a blessing. You are happy to live this life...

The Person You Think About Before You Fall Asleep

You turn off the lights and get under the sheets, letting your head sink into your pillow and your eyes close in the darkness. What comes to mind? Is it a memory, or a place, perhaps? Maybe it’s a person? Someone who often features in your thoughts before you fall asleep, and even makes an appearance in...

Being Alone Is Better Than Settling For The Wrong Person.

Nobody wants to end up on their own. The creeping feeling of fear and dread that comes with the thought of getting old and dying alone is familiar to everyone. This anxiety about the future can be bad enough on its own, but it’s made even worse by the feeling we get in the present when...

Emotional Dependency

“When we are in a relationship and we have made our needs clear to our partner, is hanging on in the hope they will follow through with promises to meet our needs a sign of emotional dependency?” The answer is – it depends on what needs you are talking about. There are some needs we...

Destined or Deserving

Very often I see people cursing the situation or blame the person who isn’t actually the one to catalyze it. Many a times, even you would have heard, “Why me?” I would rather put it in this way that, “Uncertainties are the unloved situations, which make you learned.” You make a fool out of yourself,...